https://news.ycombinator.com/user?id=_4pjxHacker News RSShttps://hnrss.org/hnrss v2.1.1Sat, 04 Jul 2026 15:00:38 +0000Oof. This hits close to home. I have ADHD and my partner recently ended a four-year relationship for several reasons but feeling neglected and like she had to fight to get my attention was one of them. We didn't consciously realize this was a major problem until it was too late. And now reading this thread I'm realizing wow yeah I really wasn't doing a good job of paying attention to her and her needs even though I cared a lot about her, now this is something to be aware of and put effort into changing in my next relationship.

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