Hacker News: an_13ahttps://news.ycombinator.com/user?id=an_13aHacker News RSShttps://hnrss.org/hnrss v2.1.1Wed, 22 Apr 2026 09:36:58 +0000<![CDATA[New comment by an_13a in "Stop trying to engineer your way out of listening to people"]]>ive listened my fair share . sometimes ppl get stuck in cogitation . especially around their pain points . having someone throw them off by implementing a solution helps reframe their thoughts . we discuss the solution instead . on the other hand, my empathy may come off as lacking .

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