<rss version="2.0" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"><channel><title>Hacker News: curiousfiddler</title><link>https://news.ycombinator.com/user?id=curiousfiddler</link><description>Hacker News RSS</description><docs>https://hnrss.org/</docs><generator>hnrss v2.1.1</generator><lastBuildDate>Sat, 18 Apr 2026 07:29:47 +0000</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://hnrss.org/user?id=curiousfiddler" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"></atom:link><item><title><![CDATA[New comment by curiousfiddler in "Multi-Token Attention"]]></title><description><![CDATA[
<p>So, why would this extract more semantic meaning than multi-head attention? Isn't the whole point of multiple heads similar to how CNNs use multiple types of filters to extract different semantic relationships?</p>
]]></description><pubDate>Thu, 03 Apr 2025 01:54:39 +0000</pubDate><link>https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=43563854</link><dc:creator>curiousfiddler</dc:creator><comments>https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=43563854</comments><guid isPermaLink="false">https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=43563854</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[New comment by curiousfiddler in "Children of married parents do better, but America is moving the other way"]]></title><description><![CDATA[
<p><i>Both Mormons and Asians socialize children into “do what you’re obliged to do, not what you want to do.”</i><p>Wow, that's incredibly reductive. Asia has approx 4.7 billion people!</p>
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<p>I would think Bay Area might be better than other places given the diversity. I spent a couple of years in North Carolina before moving here, and that experience was not good for me</p>
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<p>I really do hope. Sometimes, just short visits help you get a sense of community. And slight inconvenience is ok I feel, it is the cost of building/maintaining a relationship :)</p>
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<p>I wonder if there are ways in which part of the same experience can be created here. Social interactions seem to be a primal need for us.</p>
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<p>Sure, just to be very clear, I'm not boasting about this. And I do certainly hope that the exact opposite happens as we move forward to the next generation. I'm certainly hopeful.</p>
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<p>My guess is you live in the West. There are other cultures in the world, where there is still a strong sense of informal community. Where you can just walk to a friend or a relative's house unannounced for a cup of tea, without thinking all the time if it would inconvenience them. It feels really amazing to have the option to do that.<p>I moved to the US (Bay Area) about 10 years ago after having spent much of my youth elsewhere, and to this day, I haven't been able adjust to the lack of informal social interactions compared to where I'm from. I really tried as well to see if it's me who is not able to fit in. However, after a while I realized it's just a cultural difference. It's a way of life that has existed for several decades, which has its own benefits.<p>To me, US seems like an amazing place when you're in the apprentice/work phase of your life (20 - 45?). However, as I grow older, there are other things I have begun to value more, and one of the top ones is authentic human connection. I hope as US becomes more and more diverse, people from other cultures can add the good things they bring, instead of just trying to fit in to the default cultural model.</p>
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<p>Take a 10 minute break between serving 1 and serving 2.</p>
]]></description><pubDate>Mon, 26 Dec 2022 06:17:39 +0000</pubDate><link>https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=34135176</link><dc:creator>curiousfiddler</dc:creator><comments>https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=34135176</comments><guid isPermaLink="false">https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=34135176</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Ask HN: Any recommendation on Neuroscience books for a curious soul]]></title><description><![CDATA[
<p>Hi folks,<p>Looking for recommendations on a beginner friendly book on Neuroscience (including Neuroanatomy). I don't have a medical/biology background (have an engineering background) and my goal is just to satisfy my curiosity and develop some understanding on the brain and nervous system. Would love to hear your recommendations.<p>Thanks!</p>
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<p>Comments URL: <a href="https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=32861718">https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=32861718</a></p>
<p>Points: 4</p>
<p># Comments: 2</p>
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<p>Extremely well put. I am from one of the countries that was absolutely slaughtered by the so called great britain, and I have as much desire to share my opinion and views, as the folks who are mourning the loss.</p>
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<p>Absolutely. For a platform with a relatively high engagement early on, they made so many missteps: awful photo/video tools (instagram, tiktok), messing up live, messing up developer experience, stagnant product (awful thread management for YEARS).<p>However, I still believe it can be fixed. As an example, my consumption of news related information has moved significantly to Twitter. Why not do a better job there, in trying to provide a kick-ass way for content creators/consumers, and charge them for it.</p>
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<p>I hear you. And there is good advise in the comments, but one thing I'd think you should also explore is your emotional response when you hit the harder parts of a problem. Sometimes, it is not the lack of knowledge or understanding of a subject, but the emotional response (subtle anxiety, anger, stress etc) that hinders progress when you hit an uncomfortable stage in problem solving. To add to it, leetcode and interviews have the added pressure of time limitations.<p>Observe your emotions - there may be a completely different solution to your problems.</p>
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<p>This is an article from January 2020; not sure it is relevant in the current context.</p>
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<p>This resonates with my recent attempts to find meaning and purpose in things I do. As you point out, it's almost the same things I do, but some seemingly small things seem more meaningful...</p>
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<p>There are quite a few, and you can create a list of categories you consider as fundamentals for the nature of your work. As an example, I would think Algorithms and Data Structures is a fundamental subject. These are the easiest to practice.<p>You could for example pick something as simple as a HashTable, and implement it from scratch. Then, you could add more complexity to it, like HTs that won't fit in memory, expanding and shrinking HTs efficiently etc.<p>Or, you could use one of the several practice websites like LeetCode to practice Algorithms/DS problems.<p>Once you start building a habit, you will also become better at organizing your practice routine and finding out more about what to work on, and where to look for study/practice materials. But mind you, this is a slow process, which you want to build as a habit. There is no end goal here (like cracking Google interview or such), this is a process to get better at the fundamental skills in your field.</p>
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<p>I can think of 4 things:<p>1. Not being afraid to look at the code of the libraries that my main project depends on. It's a slow, deliberate process to develop this habit and skill. But more importantly, as you keep doing this, you will develop your own tactics of understanding a library's code and design, in a short amount of time.<p>2. Not worrying about deadlines all the time. Not a programming technique as such, but in a world of standups and agile, sometimes, you tend to work for the standup status. Avoiding that has been a big win.<p>3. (Something new I've been trying) Practicing fundamentals. I know the popular opinion is to find a project that you can learn a lot from, but that may not always happen. Good athletes work on their fundamentals all the time - Steph Curry shoots like > 100 3 point shots everyday. I'm trying to use that as an inspiration to find some time every week to work on fundamentals.<p>4. Writing: essays, notes. In general, I've noticed I gain more clarity and confidence when I spend some time writing about a subject. Over time, I've noticed, I've become more efficient in the process.</p>
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<p>Hi HN,<p>Seeking your advise on something I've been thinking of trying for a while now. I am a mid-career engineer, and while life is great, I was thinking of working with some one on going to the next level 
(not in terms of corporate hierarchy, but in broader sense) in professional life, and in general as a person. I do have some specific goals I want to work towards, and I've tried creating my own plan towards working on those. But often, life takes over (I am a parent as well), and I lose several months before I make progress. Unfortunately, I cannot take a break from work due to visa situation, otherwise it would have been ideal to take time off and spend on some of the things I wish to try.<p>I was wondering if working with someone would help me make faster and more meaningful progress. Kind of like how athletes keep working with their coaches to get to the next level. Would you have any advise on that (from your own experience, or someone you know), or anyone you would recommend working with?<p>Thanks a lot, and look forward to gathering all the awesome advise!</p>
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<p>Comments URL: <a href="https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=22096696">https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=22096696</a></p>
<p>Points: 2</p>
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]]></description><pubDate>Mon, 20 Jan 2020 06:12:42 +0000</pubDate><link>https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=22096696</link><dc:creator>curiousfiddler</dc:creator><comments>https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=22096696</comments><guid isPermaLink="false">https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=22096696</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[New comment by curiousfiddler in "Things I’ve learned in 20 years of programming"]]></title><description><![CDATA[
<p>From my ~15 years of experience, if there is just <i>one</i> advice I could give to someone starting their career as a software developer: irrespective of whether your work is exciting or not as much, it is a joy in itself to keep working on improving your craft, which is writing software systems. Excellence is always a moving target, but if you stop working on your craft, the joy you will experience as you become senior and older, will keep decreasing.</p>
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<p>I was thinking more on the lines of something similar to an enhanced journal entry, perhaps once a week. Have you had any experience with it? Curious to learn from your experience.</p>
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<p>Hi everyone,<p>I am starting a new job soon (software engineer, distributed systems/ML infra). I wanted to try out setting clear intentions for myself, and track those at a very broad level during my tenure. I have never done it before, but read a few articles which recommended doing this. At a high level, I wanted to work on innovation, and depth of knowledge (about my area of work, and the field in general).<p>I was curious if any of you have tried this before, either in work, or in general. Are there any small everyday habits that you would recommend to help with this (e.g like writing frequent essays)?<p>Thanks a lot, and excited to read your responses!</p>
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<p>Comments URL: <a href="https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=20881815">https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=20881815</a></p>
<p>Points: 3</p>
<p># Comments: 2</p>
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