<rss version="2.0" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"><channel><title>Hacker News: drivebyreply</title><link>https://news.ycombinator.com/user?id=drivebyreply</link><description>Hacker News RSS</description><docs>https://hnrss.org/</docs><generator>hnrss v2.1.1</generator><lastBuildDate>Fri, 09 Oct 2026 03:58:11 +0000</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://hnrss.org/user?id=drivebyreply" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"></atom:link><item><title><![CDATA[New comment by drivebyreply in "A lesson on the importance of encouraging your children with their projects"]]></title><description><![CDATA[
<p>> he will always be trying to put you in a position where you MUST give him praise, because you constantly hold it back.<p>> ...easily quantifiable status symbols that can be placed in a study and can be easily used to force the parent to render praise.<p>Just as a data point, I'd like to add that coming from a childhood of constant praise and overprotective parenting, I am also looking for easily quantifiable symbols of achievement. Growing up under-challenged, for me it was quite the interesting psychological experience to have to face the reality that I've been coasting through high-school and college, and have absolutely no objective idea of my skills or achievements.<p>What I mean is, each extreme is damaging - lack of praise, but also too much praise. A good middle ground is perhaps objective evaluation of the child's progress, coupled with a good introduction into the art of reasonable persistence.</p>
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