I cannot relate to this story as a Dad of a 7 year old..

1. Dad setting his son up on YouTube with his own channel at 9!

2. Proceeding to tell him about the creepy world of ads and targeting.

3. Creating an ad campaign for the kid!

4. Putting that charge on a company card!

5. Saving the card in an online account! Probably means the kid was using the Dad’s account?

6. When things go south, even saying the words “matter has been escalated and he does not yet know whether he will get to keep his job or have to repay the costs.” as if it is all the universe’s or someone else’s fault… or such a common mishap that it is worthy of just waived away.

As judgemental as it sounds… I feel sad for the outcome, but even more sad if this is the normal in our society of today :-(

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I see the value for someone who doesn’t know or want to fuss with running their own VM in the cloud, but given the usage of LLM these days… But, one only needs a bit of education to take control into their hands.

The quick answer:

Understanding neurobiology and the meta-cognition about the why of certain behavioural patterns and experiences is extremely helpful to just calm down and "forgive" myself, and not judge myself so harshly. It's as if I can optimise my life by leaning on my strengths and importantly recognising and dealing with my weaknesses. Just the awareness lets me catch myself getting into patterns, and act on them sometimes, and just let myself be the other times without any guilt. This insight brings peace more than you think. I can now organise my inner dialog and enjoy the diverse thoughts while also being aware of my impact on people in my life.

I was skeptical of the meds myself. I spoke with about 20 people through AHD support groups and group sessions. The drugs are mostly a trial and error affair with side-effects and altered behaviour. My subtle lifestyle changes - keeping one true todo list, always logging down my thoughts and taking comfort in the fact that they are jotted down so that I dont have to keep going down that thought and actually get up and go catch the train etc already gave me the biggest benefits. Then I wanted to see for myself what the drugs could actually do. At the end of it I may choose to take them or not. After 8 months of slow analytical trial and error with a very helpful psychiatrist who understood where I am coming from, I now take a very small dose of Elvanse(Vyvanse) + Guanfacine on some days of the week where I feel like I could use the help. They are not life-changing. They nudge me into being more capable of being me. My wife can notice the regulation the drugs let me have - A win for me. My kid has a better relationship with me than before - A win for me. Could I do without? Sure. But, I choose to have that little support to manage myself to get to who I want to be around my family without losing who I am. To each their own.

Longer background:

Despite reading about and knowing the symptoms of ADHD, and being told by a professional 10 years ago that I should consider getting formally diagnosed, I thought to myself - "Hey, I am smart. I feel happy and satisfied. I dont have any problem. I'm good as I am. I dont need to do anything about it." and promptly kept sweeping any thoughts about it under the proverbial rug.

Until, I started seeing my son develop in front of me. Seeing all those symptoms - impulsivity, hyper-focus on few things and inattentive to most others, emotional regulation issues, extreme reasoning abilities in some areas while being "immature" in other areas. This was me growing up. Being smart and intelligent, but longing to fit in, struggling to deal with the mundane. So, I decided to get diagnosed properly. Basically, I could hide behind my smartness and the ability to manage my symptoms until it just myself in my life, and then my wife, and then my son, but when the second one came along, I couldn't manage anymore and the overwhelm started to show the real patterns.

It takes courage to be honest and vulnerable.

My problem is the context of today’s models (that I’ve been using - Claude Opus 5 and GPT-Sol) are a black box to a user like me. I cannot tell what they already hold in their context over the duration of a coding session. I cannot tell influencers a little by using/not using MCP tools, AGENTS.md like MD files, but what they _actually_ use at inference time is still opaque.

For example, if I insist that GPT-Sol use a size bounded dynamic cheat sheet for my project, and even have those reflector&curator agents refine them concurrently, what is to say GPT-Sol doesn’t have an intrinsic cheat sheet like that already, and it is just reading/curating/managing this one in addition and only getting confused needlessly along the way?

Similarly, all those codegraph like tools and semantic search addons.. what is to say the model genuinely uses them instead of relying on its own inference techniques and just “perform” for the user audience as if they are using these fancy tools?

This is not to say we shouldn’t try more ways of managing context and just give up to our AI provider overlords. Just thinking through the logic of what we are working with.

I’m 40, and I don’t.I took that abstraction for granted and “left it to the big labs”. However I want to build my own LLM for learning purposes.

On needing big expensive hardware.. necessity is the mother of great innovation. Perhaps 18year olds trying to build their own LLMs in constrained resources environments will result in ground breaking ideas of achieving better intelligence than the one we currently have….

The world needs pragmatic folks who work at a higher abstraction and make LLMs useful, AND also folks who think why not “this other way”? And build newer ways to do fundamental things.

Given the usefulness of current LLMs, I would certainly encourage anybody to try and build their own LLMs, and see what they come up with…

Heck if they build a rack full of old laptops and run something with it that could be done “better” with modern servers, I’d still appreciate the learning running things on those little machines bring.

I downgraded my Claude subscription and delegated my Claude Opus access to serve the role of an Architect to brainstorm and plan every step of development.

I leave the development to Deepseek.

Claude gets to review at many layers. It is often just as good as if I let Opus develop it by itself(the architect session will find similar number/level of gaps).

Deepseek flash as an architect and problem solver is not as thorough as Opus5 + high. Codex sol+ high is even better than Opus 5 at this moment for my needs.

> self-hosted directly on NVMe backed by cheap and limitless object storage.

How is that?! NVMe is a protocol for fast PCIE based local storage or NVMe fabric which is PCIe over network. Object storage(in the sense of S3, R2 etc) are usually networked horizontally scaling non posix bucketed storage. They are much much slower because of the network calls..

How would NVMe map to something like S3? And what for?

Chinese cars can be superior on paper, cheaper to buy or operate. The factors on a consumer mind is

1. If something is wrong(modern cars are like beta software), will I get the support and service?

2. Will the car company exist in 5/8/10 years after my purchase? Resale value, parts for future maintenance etc.

The Chinese brands IMO are not there yet. A few years ago, Nio was very cool and tempting.. now they are winding down in Europe. There are plenty of reviews online where people struggle with service on their Chinese cars. Plus, it doesn’t help that they are dozens of brands(BYD, Xpeng, Zeekr, Cherry, Nio etc) instead of the confidence a brand like VW would instill(in the sense that your independent mechanic would know what to do if it’s VW).

Perhaps if the Chinese brands stand the test of time in a few years, we would trust them like Hyundai/Kia of today.

One would think it is actually a useful thing both for the users and the LLM providers that are compute constrained at the moment..

I’ve experienced this over and over again to strongly believe it.

I genuinely wonder if throwing LLMs at this problem would solve it at least to some extent. Make a LLM agent whose sole purpose is to act as a librarian. It periodically reviews _all_ of the wiki and validates them against codebases, newer docs, anything. Whatever it finds, it should be allowed to intelligently quiz the team/dev whether something is right/stale/wrong and updated it accordingly.

If one tolerates that toil - answering questions of a library bot, would it result in a usable wiki base?

But, as a frustrated EU resident lamenting a lack of European option(Mistral is just not competitive enough), I will spread my money towards the Chinese models as well. Thank you Murica! You achieved your soft power by pushing us towards the Chinese :-)

This protectionism and hypocrisy (free markets and freedom!! Until it is us who needs to practice what we preach) is so tiring. I wish European nations would come together closer and put their differences aside and realise larger things together. Become the new power that the US is clearly stumbling away from being.

It has been close to unusable for anything serious. I did really like the ability of Gemini-pro models to ground their research using Google Search. This meant that they were often much more thorough and up to date in their recommendations and finding solutions that came to life after the models themselves were trained. But even using Gemini as a reviewer was a weak point in my harness because of the poor reliability of their service (529 or 503).

I’ve since paid for a search API(linkup, exa, and valyu) and hooked them up to Deepseekv4-pro. It has been doing a stellar job.

The key was to prompt them to systematically use search to validate their answers(not simply “use the tool”, but something like find possibilities using web search, then once you formulate a solution, validate it with this check list -

1. Is there a better way to do this in 2026?

2. Are the libraries and its docs you’re using up to date?

This seems to help very much based on experience.

How can I automate things behind an SSO wall? Even if it means I manually authorize it once and watch it do things on its own..

Don’t get me wrong. I wish I could run a local model and be happy about it. At the moment, I’m not.