<rss version="2.0" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"><channel><title>Hacker News: relbeek2</title><link>https://news.ycombinator.com/user?id=relbeek2</link><description>Hacker News RSS</description><docs>https://hnrss.org/</docs><generator>hnrss v2.1.1</generator><lastBuildDate>Thu, 16 Apr 2026 02:21:21 +0000</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://hnrss.org/user?id=relbeek2" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"></atom:link><item><title><![CDATA[New comment by relbeek2 in "How to raise children with grit (2019)"]]></title><description><![CDATA[
<p>This article made me reflect on my own upbringing. My parents weren't particularly well-educated, but their parenting style actually had a lot in common with the fictional Andy Taylor from The Andy Griffith Show. While Angela Duckworth's research on grit wasn’t around back then, Andy Taylor modeled many of the traits Duckworth describes—compassion, high expectations, and letting kids learn from mistakes. My parents seemed to naturally follow a similar path, and it served as a kind of guardrail for them—a common-sense approach they likely picked up because it felt right, not because of any research.<p>I'm not claiming my success today is solely due to this upbringing, but I do feel like it had a meaningful impact. Especially when I see the outcomes of friends who had either very authoritarian or completely hands-off parents. There's something powerful in that balanced, "Andy Taylor" approach: patient guidance, firm boundaries, and leading by example.<p>It’s interesting to consider that despite all the developmental psychology and theories on parenting we have today, a lot of the fundamentals were demonstrated in simple, accessible ways by a character on 1960s TV. It’s a reminder that, at its core, effective parenting often just requires consistency, empathy, and a healthy dose of common sense.</p>
]]></description><pubDate>Thu, 28 Nov 2024 19:21:47 +0000</pubDate><link>https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=42267898</link><dc:creator>relbeek2</dc:creator><comments>https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=42267898</comments><guid isPermaLink="false">https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=42267898</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Ask HN: Have You Organized a "Letters to Santa" Activity for Your Community?]]></title><description><![CDATA[
<p>Hi HN,<p>I’m looking to set up a "Letters to Santa" for the kids in my neighborhood this year. If you've done something similar in your own community, I'd love to hear about it.<p>Whether it was a simple mailbox, a special event, or even some unique way to deliver replies from Santa, I'd be really grateful for any tips or ideas that worked well for you.<p>Thanks for any inspiration you can share!</p>
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<p>Comments URL: <a href="https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=42011169">https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=42011169</a></p>
<p>Points: 2</p>
<p># Comments: 1</p>
]]></description><pubDate>Thu, 31 Oct 2024 20:30:04 +0000</pubDate><link>https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=42011169</link><dc:creator>relbeek2</dc:creator><comments>https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=42011169</comments><guid isPermaLink="false">https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=42011169</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[New comment by relbeek2 in "Ask HN: What are you working on (September 2024)?"]]></title><description><![CDATA[
<p>nice, i first heard about OMSCS through hackernews and finished the program 2 years ago.</p>
]]></description><pubDate>Thu, 03 Oct 2024 02:54:10 +0000</pubDate><link>https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=41726912</link><dc:creator>relbeek2</dc:creator><comments>https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=41726912</comments><guid isPermaLink="false">https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=41726912</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[New comment by relbeek2 in "Starliner crew reports hearing "sonar like noises""]]></title><description><![CDATA[
<p>Sept 2 Update<p>> NASA issued the following explanation on Monday for the strange noises: "A pulsing sound from a speaker in Boeing’s Starliner spacecraft heard by NASA astronaut Butch Wilmore aboard the International Space Station has stopped. The feedback from the speaker was the result of an audio configuration between the space station and Starliner. The space station audio system is complex, allowing multiple spacecraft and modules to be interconnected, and it is common to experience noise and feedback."</p>
]]></description><pubDate>Mon, 02 Sep 2024 19:35:44 +0000</pubDate><link>https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=41428185</link><dc:creator>relbeek2</dc:creator><comments>https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=41428185</comments><guid isPermaLink="false">https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=41428185</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[New comment by relbeek2 in "NASA says Boeing Starliner astronauts may fly home on SpaceX in 2025"]]></title><description><![CDATA[
<p>Thiokol + Hercules = ATK<p>ATK + OribtalSciences = Orbital ATK<p>then NG bought out Orbital ATK</p>
]]></description><pubDate>Sun, 11 Aug 2024 17:39:23 +0000</pubDate><link>https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=41217871</link><dc:creator>relbeek2</dc:creator><comments>https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=41217871</comments><guid isPermaLink="false">https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=41217871</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[AT&T blames software update glitch for service outage]]></title><description><![CDATA[
<p>Article URL: <a href="https://nypost.com/2024/02/23/business/atampt-blames-software-update-glitch-for-outage/">https://nypost.com/2024/02/23/business/atampt-blames-software-update-glitch-for-outage/</a></p>
<p>Comments URL: <a href="https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=39480194">https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=39480194</a></p>
<p>Points: 1</p>
<p># Comments: 0</p>
]]></description><pubDate>Fri, 23 Feb 2024 13:17:56 +0000</pubDate><link>https://nypost.com/2024/02/23/business/atampt-blames-software-update-glitch-for-outage/</link><dc:creator>relbeek2</dc:creator><comments>https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=39480194</comments><guid isPermaLink="false">https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=39480194</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[New comment by relbeek2 in "Starbucks $10 pork-flavored coffee"]]></title><description><![CDATA[
<p>You've clearly never gone to a Starbucks Roastery before. Its a night and day difference between the standard cafe and a roastery.</p>
]]></description><pubDate>Fri, 23 Feb 2024 03:03:08 +0000</pubDate><link>https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=39476462</link><dc:creator>relbeek2</dc:creator><comments>https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=39476462</comments><guid isPermaLink="false">https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=39476462</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[New comment by relbeek2 in "Starbucks $10 pork-flavored coffee"]]></title><description><![CDATA[
<p>sounds better than pumpkin spice bacon, and that's a thing.</p>
]]></description><pubDate>Thu, 22 Feb 2024 23:47:45 +0000</pubDate><link>https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=39474970</link><dc:creator>relbeek2</dc:creator><comments>https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=39474970</comments><guid isPermaLink="false">https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=39474970</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[New comment by relbeek2 in "Starbucks $10 pork-flavored coffee"]]></title><description><![CDATA[
<p>its not the coffee you are buying, its the experience.</p>
]]></description><pubDate>Thu, 22 Feb 2024 23:47:05 +0000</pubDate><link>https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=39474963</link><dc:creator>relbeek2</dc:creator><comments>https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=39474963</comments><guid isPermaLink="false">https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=39474963</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[New comment by relbeek2 in "AT&T is still down – here's what we know about the major cellphone outages"]]></title><description><![CDATA[
<p>Inconclusive evidence but hard probably.</p>
]]></description><pubDate>Thu, 22 Feb 2024 20:05:21 +0000</pubDate><link>https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=39472356</link><dc:creator>relbeek2</dc:creator><comments>https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=39472356</comments><guid isPermaLink="false">https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=39472356</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[New comment by relbeek2 in "Cellular outage in U.S. hits AT&T, T-Mobile and Verizon users"]]></title><description><![CDATA[
<p>from the same article above, it seems like it's a critical part of this.<p>> “Everybody’s incentives are aligned,” the former official said. “The FCC is going to want to know what caused it so that lessons can be learned. And if they find malfeasance or bad actions or, just poor quality of oversight of the network, they have the latitude to act.”<p>If AT&T gets to decide if they are at fault, they will, of course, never be at fault.  So a third-party investigation makes a lot of sense.<p>I would also suspect that the FCC would not be as well versed in determining if there was a hack or even who did it, which is why I feel like CISA would need to get involved in the investigation.</p>
]]></description><pubDate>Thu, 22 Feb 2024 17:53:55 +0000</pubDate><link>https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=39470641</link><dc:creator>relbeek2</dc:creator><comments>https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=39470641</comments><guid isPermaLink="false">https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=39470641</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[New comment by relbeek2 in "Cellular outage in U.S. hits AT&T, T-Mobile and Verizon users"]]></title><description><![CDATA[
<p>> However, the US Cybersecurity and Infrastructure Security Agency is “working closely with AT&T to understand the cause of the outage and its impacts, and stand[s] ready to offer any assistance needed,” Eric Goldstein, the agency’s executive assistant director for cybersecurity, said in a statement to CNN.[1]<p>[1] - [<a href="https://www.cnn.com/2024/02/22/tech/att-cell-service-outage/index.html](https://www.cnn.com/2024/02/22/tech/att-cell-service-outage/index.html)" rel="nofollow">https://www.cnn.com/2024/02/22/tech/att-cell-service-outage/...</a><p>This isn't telling of anything, right? Wouldn't CISA be involved with anything that impacts Public Infrastructure at this level?</p>
]]></description><pubDate>Thu, 22 Feb 2024 17:39:26 +0000</pubDate><link>https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=39470407</link><dc:creator>relbeek2</dc:creator><comments>https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=39470407</comments><guid isPermaLink="false">https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=39470407</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[New comment by relbeek2 in "AT&T is still down – here's what we know about the major cellphone outages"]]></title><description><![CDATA[
<p>My coffee creamer expired weeks earlier than expected. Can we add that to the list while we are at it?</p>
]]></description><pubDate>Thu, 22 Feb 2024 17:34:41 +0000</pubDate><link>https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=39470343</link><dc:creator>relbeek2</dc:creator><comments>https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=39470343</comments><guid isPermaLink="false">https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=39470343</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[New comment by relbeek2 in "Cellular outage in U.S. hits AT&T, T-Mobile and Verizon users"]]></title><description><![CDATA[
<p>> FirstNet is also down<p>CNN reported that AT&T confirmed it has not been impacted throughout this event.<p><a href="https://www.cnn.com/business/live-news/att-outage-02-22-24/index.html" rel="nofollow">https://www.cnn.com/business/live-news/att-outage-02-22-24/i...</a></p>
]]></description><pubDate>Thu, 22 Feb 2024 15:05:46 +0000</pubDate><link>https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=39468138</link><dc:creator>relbeek2</dc:creator><comments>https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=39468138</comments><guid isPermaLink="false">https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=39468138</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[New comment by relbeek2 in "Cellular outage in U.S. hits AT&T, T-Mobile and Verizon users"]]></title><description><![CDATA[
<p>A solar flare targetted at ATT Infra only?  Unlikely.<p>Could be a hack
Could be a single point of failure 
Could be a config change that borked the system<p>Could be other things that make more sense we will have to wait for more info.</p>
]]></description><pubDate>Thu, 22 Feb 2024 14:14:26 +0000</pubDate><link>https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=39467329</link><dc:creator>relbeek2</dc:creator><comments>https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=39467329</comments><guid isPermaLink="false">https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=39467329</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[New comment by relbeek2 in "Falsehoods programmers believe about time zones (2020)"]]></title><description><![CDATA[
<p>Most of these I already knew except the -12 to +14 UTC.<p>Thankfully most programmers don't really have to worry about all of these edge cases unless they are writing their own timezone libraries.</p>
]]></description><pubDate>Sun, 11 Feb 2024 17:44:43 +0000</pubDate><link>https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=39336770</link><dc:creator>relbeek2</dc:creator><comments>https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=39336770</comments><guid isPermaLink="false">https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=39336770</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[New comment by relbeek2 in "Hacktoberfest 2023"]]></title><description><![CDATA[
<p>I will be interested in seeing how not offering a t-shirt affects the overall participation. I think it will definitely improve the quality of hacktoberfest.</p>
]]></description><pubDate>Tue, 03 Oct 2023 20:19:04 +0000</pubDate><link>https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=37756998</link><dc:creator>relbeek2</dc:creator><comments>https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=37756998</comments><guid isPermaLink="false">https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=37756998</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[New comment by relbeek2 in "Pictures from an unshared note can leak into shared notes on iOS"]]></title><description><![CDATA[
<p>Yes and verified that the person the note is shared with gets it on their phone. So it’s not even just a ui bug</p>
]]></description><pubDate>Tue, 03 Oct 2023 18:31:52 +0000</pubDate><link>https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=37755751</link><dc:creator>relbeek2</dc:creator><comments>https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=37755751</comments><guid isPermaLink="false">https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=37755751</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[New comment by relbeek2 in "Pictures from an unshared note can leak into shared notes on iOS"]]></title><description><![CDATA[
<p>That is what I also thought; I submitted it a second time, and it was rejected again. I even showed them a video of the process.</p>
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<p>I recently discovered that if you add large videos or many images to a note in iOS 17, and delete that note before all images are attached to the note, the images get attached to the next note in the list, even if its a shared note.<p>I reached out to Apple thinking this could be a privacy concern and was told that it was a UI bug not a privacy concern, do you agree?</p>
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<p>Comments URL: <a href="https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=37745196">https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=37745196</a></p>
<p>Points: 15</p>
<p># Comments: 6</p>
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